Most people's life is not what you have seen on WeChat Moments. Someone else's life always belongs to someone else. You never know if they were crying when they posted something on Moments. But there's still some warm moments in our life，even though it's not always bright or beautiful.
Moments look like a funny mirror. You cannot guess other people's mind and they cannot understand you.
Moments looks like a kaleidoscope. They may look colorful ，but actually those are trivial pieces.
A literator Yu quiyu once said : some people consumed their own life with mutual suspicion and mutual slander. However, some people focus on the good time of each day.
Do not bundle your life into a small circle such as Wechat Moments.
Do not confine your life to a illusory circle such as Wechat Moments.
Get out of the bondage of society and your life'll be enriched.
Here I'll share an article with you from Yu Qiuyu. Perhaps you may have a new understanding of Moments.
A great benefit of WeiJin period is the diversity of ecology and mentality.Rituals
are still popular,and RuanJi's unbridled behavior is also allowed.so the world seems to be very tolerant.
When RuanJi was mourning for his mother, one day his friend PeiKai came to grieve for Ruan's mother .He saw that Ruan was in great silence and refused to stand up to grieve,just sitting aside without having his hair teased.
When Peikai came out of the room,someone came to him immediately and said,"According to the Rituals,guests should always be after the host when people grieved for someone .But Ruan looked so peace without any grief.Why did you grieve for it alone?".
Regardless of the words from those who were trying to stir up trouble behind,I was quiet impressived by Pei's answer."Ruanji is a man who is far beyond of the Rituals,thus,he doesn't need to obey.But we do." Pei said.
I think Pei seems to belong to the dynasty of Wei and Jin.He follows the rules of the world but never asks others to follow it.
One thing is for sure, Ruan will never carry the heavy burden from his social world on the shoulders,since he is dying for getting rip of the rottenness of this traditional system.
Many people came to Ruanji for some benefits because of his reputation.They made friends with the celebrity for the purpose of sharing them and spy on them . Once things went out of the rail,lights would be spotted on all these celebrities,and their lives would be greatly bothered.
Living in the tumultuous times,Ruan has experienced a lot.In the deep part of his heart,he knows that friendship would never last long.So he will never get trucked in it.
About Wechat Moments,I have to say something about my understanding of today's young adults.They would be easy to be surrounded by a circle after graduation.The circle what I said is not only a relationship between friends,but also a standard of other people's life which is able to spend lots of your time and comparison on Moments which would consume your life .
Finally you'll feel that your time is not enough and you're tired to deal with these circles which Qian Zhongshu called "the siege".A student who seems to be alive in a teacher's opinion has become a mediocre people in a few years.
So I always want to remind you that you have to set your starting point constantly and keep breaking through the siege. Keep reminding yourself that you deserve a wonderful life,even if you get old.This life is more valuable.
Today's young people like to go through their moments all day.This action not only consumes the information,but also your life.So you must dare to create a life without moments instead of confusing of moments.
Although the ciecle is pretty attractive and has high-tech as its back .However, your life pattern will become smaller.
Many people are buzy on moments all day.Just like you says something on your moments then I say something on my moments,or you shares what's going on with your family and I share what I bought recently.
The result is you'll be entangled in this circle.And you don't know that a man's magnificent life which never be repeated was swallowed in that circle.