英语美文 | 情商高的人永远不会这么发朋友圈

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文 / 余秋雨



Most people's life is not what you have seen on WeChat Moments. Someone else's life always belongs to someone else. You never know if they were crying when they posted something on Moments. But there's still some warm moments in our life,even though it's not always bright or beautiful.

大多数人的生活,都不是你曾经在朋友圈里看到的那般。别人的生活永远是别人的,你永远也不知道朋友圈背后的人会不会也在流泪。而我们的生活哪怕不光鲜亮丽,却依旧会有我们自己的温度。


Moments look like a funny mirror. You cannot guess other people's mind and they cannot understand you. 

朋友圈就像一面哈哈镜,外人看不清你的样子,你猜不透外人的心思。


Moments looks like a kaleidoscope. They may look colorful ,but actually those are trivial pieces.

朋友圈就像一个万花筒,表面上看起来五彩斑斓,实际上也不过是琐琐碎碎。


A literator Yu quiyu once said : some people consumed their own life with mutual suspicion and mutual slander. However, some people focus on the good time of each day.

文化大家余秋雨曾经说:有人把生命局促于互窥互监、互猜互损,有人把生命释放于大地长天、远山沧海。


Do not bundle your life into a small circle such as Wechat Moments.

别把生活捆绑进朋友圈这个小小的圈子。


Do not confine your life to a illusory circle such as Wechat Moments.

别把生活局限在朋友圈这个虚幻的圈子。


Get out of the bondage of society and your life'll be enriched.

走出社交的绑架,其实一片豁然开朗。


Here I'll share an article with you from Yu Qiuyu. Perhaps you may have a new understanding of Moments.

和大家分享一篇余秋雨先生的文章,或许你会对朋友圈有新的认识。


A great benefit of WeiJin period is the diversity of ecology and mentality.Rituals 

are still popular,and RuanJi's unbridled behavior is also allowed.so the world seems to be very tolerant.

魏晋时期的一大好处,是生态和心态的多元。礼教还在流行,而阮籍的放诞行为又被允许,于是人世间也就显得十分宽阔。


When RuanJi was mourning for his mother, one day his friend PeiKai came to grieve for Ruan's mother .He saw that Ruan was in great silence and refused to stand up to grieve,just sitting aside without having his hair teased.

记得阮籍守丧期间,有一天朋友裴楷前去吊唁,在阮籍母亲的灵堂里哭拜,而阮籍却披散着头发坐着,既不起立也不哭拜,只是两眼发直,表情木然。


When Peikai came out of the room,someone came to him immediately and said,"According to the Rituals,guests should always be after the host when people grieved for someone .But Ruan looked so peace without any grief.Why did you grieve for it alone?".

裴楷吊唁出来后,立即有人对他说:“按照礼法,吊唁时主人先哭拜,客人才跟着哭拜。这次我看阮籍根本没有哭拜,你为什么独自哭拜?”


Regardless of the words from those who were trying to stir up trouble behind,I was quiet impressived by Pei's answer."Ruanji is a man who is far beyond of the Rituals,thus,he doesn't need to obey.But we do." Pei said.

说这番话的大半是挑拨离间的小人,且不去管它了,我对裴楷的回答却很欣赏,他说:“阮籍是超乎礼法的人,可以不讲礼法;我还在礼法之中,所以遵循礼法。”


I think Pei seems to belong to the dynasty of Wei and Jin.He follows the rules of the world but never asks others to follow it.

我觉得这位裴楷虽是礼法中人却又颇具魏晋风度。他自己不圆通却愿意让世界圆通。


One thing is for sure, Ruan will never carry the heavy burden from his social world on the shoulders,since he is dying for getting rip of the rottenness of this traditional system.

既然阮籍如此干脆地扯断了一根根陈旧的世俗经纬而直取人生本义,那么,他当然也不会受制于人际关系的重负。


Many people came to Ruanji for some benefits because of his reputation.They made friends with the celebrity for the purpose of sharing them and spy on them . Once things went out of the rail,lights would be spotted on all these celebrities,and their lives would be greatly bothered.

他是名人,社会上要交结他的人很多,而这些人中间有很大一部分是以吃食名人为生的:结交名人为的是分享名人,边分享边觊觎,一有风吹草动便告密起哄、兴风作浪,刹那间把名人围啄得累累伤痕。


Living in the tumultuous times,Ruan has experienced a lot.In the deep part of his heart,he knows that friendship would never last long.So he will never get trucked in it. 

阮籍身处乱世,在这方面可谓见多识广。他深知世俗友情的不可靠,因此绝不会被一个似真似幻的朋友圈所迷惑。


About Wechat Moments,I have to say something about my understanding of today's young adults.They would be easy to be surrounded by a circle after graduation.The circle what I said is not only a relationship between friends,but also a standard of other people's life which is able to spend lots of your time and comparison on Moments which would consume your life .

提到朋友圈的问题,我需要说一说我对现在年轻人的理解——他们毕业以后很快就被一个圈子围住了,我所说的圈子不仅仅是指一个人际关系的朋友圈,还指别人的生活标准,它会把你的生命耗费很多;还有朋友圈里的互相攀比,又要把你的生命消耗很多。


Finally you'll feel that your time is not enough and you're tired to deal with these circles which Qian Zhongshu called "the siege".A student who seems to be alive in a teacher's opinion has become a mediocre people in a few years.

结果很快你会觉得自己的生命不够了,整天疲于对付这些圈子,对付这个钱钟书先生所说的“围城”。一个在教师看来生气勃勃的学生,过几年再看到他,他却成了一个平庸的人。


So I always want to remind you that you have to set your starting point constantly and keep breaking through the siege. Keep reminding yourself that you deserve a wonderful life,even if you get old.This life is more valuable. 

所以我始终要提醒大家,你们要不断地设定起点,不断地突破围城,不断地提醒自己,你值得有一个更精彩的生命,即使年纪很大了也是这样,这样的生命就比较有价值。


Today's young people like to go through their moments all day.This action not only consumes the information,but also your life.So you must dare to create a life without moments instead of confusing of moments.

现在的年轻人都喜欢成天低头刷微信朋友圈,这样做不仅消耗了信息,也把自己的生命给消耗掉了。因此你一定不要被这个圈子所迷惑,要勇于创造朋友圈以外的生命。


Although the ciecle is pretty attractive and has high-tech as its back .However, your life pattern will become smaller.

尽管这个圈子很有魅力,而且被高科技给武装起来了,但是一旦你沉溺于这个圈子里,你的生命格局只会越来越狭小。


Many people are buzy on moments all day.Just like you says something on your moments then I say something on my moments,or you shares what's going on with your family and I share what I bought recently.

许多人就是整天在这个朋友圈里折腾——你说几句漂亮的话,我讲几句漂亮的话;你晒晒家里发生了什么,我晒晒最近买了什么。


The result is you'll be entangled in this circle.And you don't know that a man's magnificent life which never be repeated was swallowed in that circle.

结果你就被这个圈子缠住了,你不知道这个圈子里边所包裹的是一个永远不可重复的高贵的生命。


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